Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Here's an email

This is a cut-and-paste with only the name and email addy changed:
On Tuesday, March 18, 2014 4:42 PM,}}{{SomeoneIwon'trevealofcourse!@gmail.com> wrote:
Dear,
My name is {{blahblahblah}}, 26 years old. Scheduling a session with you would be my ultimate fantasy.
Are you available for a session on 21st of March between 8-10pm. I am interested in role play, sensual tease, teacher/student fantasy. Do you offer such sessions.
Thank you for considering this e-mail.
{{blah}}
Here's my response:

Me
To (blah)
Today at 4:01 AM
Hi {{blah}}I'd  love to be your guide.  How cool!  I am very experienced of course but more than that, I'm a natural teacher.  I've had more than a few young and not-so-young men that I've taught or given advice to about all kinds of sex-related issues.   But its always happened organically.  I've never had a client make a request so candidly and openly.  I'm impressed.  The first step will be finding out what you like.  So I'll want you to tell me what has worked and not worked for you so far, and why.  Then I'd like to know what you are curious about, specifically as possible.   What about each act or scenario or image appeals to you or doesn't.  It sounds like a lot of ground to cover-and it is-so that's why I wanted to send you a reply.  Start thinking about my questions and try to add to them.  
I want you to make an actual list and bring it with you.  List them from most important/interesting to least.  And if you need any toys, clothes or other objects to make your fantasies happen, you'll need to bring them.  I don't have much for what I call 'session equipment' here because I'm only visiting.  (I live in Tampa) Even if I did, I have a feeling that you're not going to need standard S&M things like that anyway.  Just making a guess but I'm pretty good at this kind of guesswork! *:) happy
If we have time, the next step will be what things you seem to be good at that are widely popular and what things you'll need to practice at.  Then, ultimately we'll combine the two steps to find out what is likely to please both you and the lady you're with.  Since I don't know your future sex partner(s) and you might not either, we should concentrate on the really wonderful art of showing a woman how to enjoy pleasing you.  Its not as well-known as it used to be, but most women are by nature excited by pleasing the man. Sounds sexist, right?  It is, but its still true!  See there, Paul? You just got your first lesson.  
Looking forward to meeting you.

Valerie